Tag Archives: single

Are you a hugger, SAM?

Posted on January 15, 2012 by Reflective SAM

Growing up, my parents didn’t really show much affection.  Though they weren’t shy about showing a lot of anger and disdain at one another!     It was definitely a messed up marriage, and I don’t think I ever saw … Continue reading →

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I’m Dreaming of an Asian Christmas!

Posted on December 14, 2011 by Reflective SAM

ikoni  Hey, everyone.  The year is winding down, and the city streets are lined with colored lights, and red and green decorations.  It’s Christmas time!  I really enjoy the nostalgic atmosphere of Christmas.  The old Christmas standards with the smooth, … Continue reading →

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Advice to SAMs: Be a Geek

Posted on November 9, 2011 by Reflective SAM

It seems that a lot of Asian and Asian-American guys think they have the opposite problem, that they are too geeky, or at least perceived as such. However, from the perspective of a girl who has dated, dumped, and been … Continue reading →

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I got stereotyped by a dumb white waitress! Damn!

Posted on October 5, 2011 by Reflective SAM

Recently I went to a trendy burger joint with a bunch of buddies for lunch.  There were about six of us including two East Asians, a half Asian, a Hispanic guy, a Hispanic guy, and a token white guy.  Looking … Continue reading →

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SAMs and alcohol equals the ‘Asian Flush’

Posted on January 5, 2011 by Reflective SAM

You go drinking with your Asian homies, and there always seems to be one or two guys who start looking like they were out in the sun too long, or just angry as hell!  I read this article on the … Continue reading →

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White On Rice: The Movie

Posted on September 18, 2009 by Reflective SAM

So a friend of mine in San Francisco said he was in a restaurant when a man in a banana came in plugging this video.  I watched the clip and it’s kind of funny.  The reason I’m not opposed to … Continue reading →

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Fixed the Subscribe to Comments feature for articles

Posted on August 23, 2009 by Reflective SAM

Hey Loyal Readers, Again, you have the option of subscribing to stories on the SAM site!  This somehow got broken during the rebuild, but now it’s working again.  There is a checkbox at the bottom of the page which says … Continue reading →

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Too many SAMs are passive with chicks

Posted on August 2, 2006 by Controversial SAM

Asian guys in general are so passive with women. They are just not aggressive enough. They don’t have that urgency, that deep desire, that exuding sexuality smoldering from within. They need to tap this shit and grab the chick before … Continue reading →

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